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When asexual identity changes friend group dynamics

I came out as ace to my friend group and now they either don't invite me to things or constantly ask if I'm okay when they talk about dating.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The assumption that asexuality equals discomfort with sexuality creates unnecessary isolation and protective othering.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined queer identity?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.