Periagoge
Scenario

When early rejection shapes decades of identity suppression

I came out as bi in high school and everyone said I was just seeking attention, so I dated guys for years to prove them wrong and now I don't know who I really am.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Adolescent shaming can create lifelong patterns of self-denial that make it difficult to distinguish authentic desire from performance.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Bisexual and pansexual identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.