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When early rejection shapes decades of identity suppression

I came out as bi in high school and everyone said I was just seeking attention, so I dated guys for years to prove them wrong and now I don't know who I really am.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Adolescent shaming can create lifelong patterns of self-denial that make it difficult to distinguish authentic desire from performance.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Bisexual and pansexual identity?”

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