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Scenario

How to handle friends who sexualize your identity

I came out as bi to my straight friends and they immediately started asking me which gender I prefer in bed, like my entire identity is just a sex thing.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

When others reduce your complex identity to sexual curiosity, it reflects their inability to see you as a whole person beyond their own fascination.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Bisexual and pansexual identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.