I came out as bi to my straight friends and they immediately started asking me which gender I prefer in bed, like my entire identity is just a sex thing.
More people experience this than they realize.
When others reduce your complex identity to sexual curiosity, it reflects their inability to see you as a whole person beyond their own fascination.
“Where Are You with Bisexual and pansexual identity?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.