Periagoge
Scenario

When sexual identity shifts challenge narrative coherence

I came out as gay at 35 after being married to a woman for ten years and I don't know if I was lying then or if I'm lying now.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Late-in-life authenticity can cast doubt on the reality of all previous experiences, destabilizing the foundation of selfhood.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Who am I — the foundational question?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.