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When Your Sexual Identity Shifts After You've Already Come Out

I came out as lesbian five years ago but lately I've been attracted to this man and I'm terrified my friends will think I was lying or going through a phase.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Evolving desire challenges both personal certainty and community belonging when identity feels fluid rather than fixed.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Sexual orientation as identity?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.