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Scenario

When Your Sexual Identity Shifts After You've Already Come Out

I came out as lesbian five years ago but lately I've been attracted to this man and I'm terrified my friends will think I was lying or going through a phase.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Evolving desire challenges both personal certainty and community belonging when identity feels fluid rather than fixed.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Sexual orientation as identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.