I came out as nonbinary to my progressive friends who now police my pronouns more aggressively than I ever asked them to.
More people experience this than they realize.
Well-intentioned advocacy can transform personal identity into public performance, removing individual agency from self-definition.
“Where Are You with Adopted identity — chosen and given?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.