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When your authentic identity feels like a performance at work

I came out as trans at work six months ago and now every conversation feels performative, like I'm constantly proving I deserve to be seen as who I actually am.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The gap between internal truth and external validation creates exhausting self-consciousness that undermines the very authenticity you're fighting for.

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