LibraryScenariosWhy accepting forgiveness can be harder than asking for it
Scenario

Why accepting forgiveness can be harder than asking for it

I cheated on my partner and told them about it, and they want to work through it together, but I feel like I don't deserve forgiveness and keep pushing them to just leave me.

Juana
Online
The coach is replying

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Someone struggles with receiving grace while wrestling with shame and the belief they deserve punishment.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ubuntu justice — healing over punishment?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.