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Scenario

Why accepting forgiveness can be harder than asking for it

I cheated on my partner and told them about it, and they want to work through it together, but I feel like I don't deserve forgiveness and keep pushing them to just leave me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Someone struggles with receiving grace while wrestling with shame and the belief they deserve punishment.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ubuntu justice — healing over punishment?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.