I feel like a fraud calling myself non-binary because I don't look androgynous enough and still get read as my assigned gender.
More people experience this than they realize.
Legitimacy becomes tied to appearance when identity is reduced to performance.
“Where Are You with Non-binary and genderqueer identity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.