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Why Going No-Contact Feels Like Losing Yourself

I finally cut contact with my toxic family and I feel relief but also like I've lost the only people who knew the real me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Severing ties with harmful but formative relationships can create grief for the loss of witnesses to one's full history and complexity.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The multiple selves model — psychological?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.