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Scenario

Why Going No-Contact Feels Like Losing Yourself

I finally cut contact with my toxic family and I feel relief but also like I've lost the only people who knew the real me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Severing ties with harmful but formative relationships can create grief for the loss of witnesses to one's full history and complexity.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The multiple selves model — psychological?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.