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Scenario

How family expectations complicate gender transition

I finally saved enough for top surgery and my surgery date is in two months, but my grandmother is dying and she keeps talking about wanting to see me 'as God made me' one last time.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

He's navigating the collision between personal authenticity and family grief, questioning whether delayed self-realization is a form of love or self-betrayal.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Body as identity — physical self-concept?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.