Periagoge
Scenario

When starting over makes you complicit in erasing your own history

I got divorced and moved to a new city where nobody knows I was ever married, and sometimes I don't mention my ex-husband when it would be natural to, like I'm erasing twenty years of my life.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The freedom to reinvent yourself can create pressure to disown experiences that shaped you, even when they no longer define you.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Converting — gaining a new identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.