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How to navigate being told to wait when others advance

I got passed over for partner again and my male colleague who started after me just made it, but everyone keeps telling me I'm 'almost there' and to be patient.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

She's experiencing the slow violence of systemic exclusion disguised as meritocratic process.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The examined female identity?”

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