Periagoge
Scenario

Why some people use relationships to avoid themselves

I keep dating people I know aren't right for me because being alone means facing who I actually am without someone else to focus on.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're using romantic distraction to escape the discomfort of authentic self-encounter.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Existentialist authenticity vs. bad faith?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.