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Scenario

Why people-pleasing makes you hate the people you're trying to please

I keep saying yes to social events I don't want to attend because I'm afraid people will think I'm boring, but then I resent everyone there.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desperate pursuit of acceptance breeds contempt for both others and yourself.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The social self and the private self?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.