I legally changed my gender marker but I still get misgendered daily and I'm exhausted from deciding moment by moment whether to correct people or let it slide.
More people experience this than they realize.
Legal recognition doesn't eliminate the emotional labor of constantly negotiating how much of yourself to reveal or defend.
“Where Are You with Converting — gaining a new identity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.