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When your old name represents trauma

I legally changed my name to escape an abusive past, but old friends keep using my old name on social media and it feels like they're dragging me back.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The persistence of former identity markers can retraumatize those seeking to rebuild themselves through intentional renaming.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Name and identity across cultures?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.