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Why You Feel Different With Different People

I love my partner but I notice I'm funnier, sharper, more myself when I'm with my friends, and I don't know if that means something's wrong with my relationship.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The contextual nature of self-expression can create anxiety about which version represents the 'real' self, especially in intimate relationships.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The multiple selves model — psychological?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.