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When economic differences create shame in family relationships

I make significantly less money than my siblings and feel embarrassed to suggest cheaper restaurants or activities when we plan family gatherings.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Class differences within families can generate profound shame and force individuals to perform beyond their means to maintain belonging.

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