I matched with this girl on a dating app and when we met in person she seemed disappointed, and I'm pretty sure it's because I'm darker than my photos suggested.
More people experience this than they realize.
Digital dating platforms can intensify colorist preferences through photo filtering and in-person disappointment.
“Where Are You with Colorism and intraracial identity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.