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When to disclose transgender identity in dating

I pass as the gender I identify with now but I'm terrified to date because I don't know when or how to tell someone I'm trans.

Juana
Online
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The intersection of vulnerability, safety, and authenticity creates impossible timing dilemmas in intimate relationships.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Gender identity — full spectrum?”

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