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When coming out later in life feels like admitting to deception

I passed for straight my whole career and now that I'm married to a woman I don't know how to come out without people thinking I was lying all these years.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Living authentically after years of protective hiding can feel like betraying the trust of people who never knew the real you.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Living justly in an unjust world?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.