I present as masculine but I am fa'afafine and my white girlfriend keeps asking me to explain myself in ways that make me feel like a museum exhibit.
More people experience this than they realize.
Intimate relationships become sites of cultural translation where the burden of education can eclipse genuine connection.
“Where Are You with Pacific gender diversity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.