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When you can't distinguish between confidence and performance

I realized I've been performing confidence for so long that I can't tell what's real self-assurance and what's just a very convincing mask.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

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He's confronting the unsettling possibility that his constructed persona has become so convincing it obscures his authentic emotional reality.

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