Periagoge
Scenario

How to repair harm when the person is gone

I said something cruel to my mother during her cancer treatment that I immediately regretted and she died before I could properly apologize and now I don't know how to live with that.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The impossibility of direct amends forces a confrontation with how accountability must sometimes transform into a different kind of moral work when restoration is no longer possible.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Punitive vs. restorative approaches to harm?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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