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Scenario

When others rewrite your history after you discover new aspects of your identity

I started dating women after my divorce and my ex-husband tells people I was always gay and our marriage was a lie, but that's not how it felt to me at the time.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Others' need to make sense of your evolution can erase the authentic complexity of your journey.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Converting — gaining a new identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.