I started testosterone three months ago and I feel like myself for the first time, but my girlfriend says she's grieving the person I used to be.
More people experience this than they realize.
Personal authenticity through transition can trigger grief responses in loved ones who must recalibrate their attachment to previous gender presentation.
“Where Are You with Life transitions as identity events?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.