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Scenario

Why internal acceptance of your own pronouns takes time

I started using they/them pronouns but my brain still defaults to my old pronouns when I think about myself and it makes me feel fake.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The mind changes more slowly than the heart, creating dissonance within yourself.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Non-binary and genderqueer identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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