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Scenario

How self-forgiveness can feel like moral theft

I want to forgive myself for the drunk driving accident that killed someone, but their family deserves my guilt.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Personal healing and honoring victims' suffering can appear to be mutually exclusive moral imperatives.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Justice and forgiveness — the tension?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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