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When death pressure creates false forgiveness

I want to tell my dying father that I forgive him for his years of emotional abuse, but I'm not sure if I actually do forgive him or just think I should.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The urgency of mortality is pushing you toward a resolution that feels more like performance than genuine healing.

Ideas that help explain it
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