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When long-awaited parenthood doesn't match expectations

I worked so hard to get pregnant through IVF that I feel guilty admitting how exhausted and overwhelmed I am now that she's here.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The struggle to achieve parenthood can create pressure to experience only gratitude, suppressing normal parental challenges.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parental identity — becoming and losing?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.