Periagoge
Scenario

When long-awaited parenthood doesn't match expectations

I worked so hard to get pregnant through IVF that I feel guilty admitting how exhausted and overwhelmed I am now that she's here.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The struggle to achieve parenthood can create pressure to experience only gratitude, suppressing normal parental challenges.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Parental identity — becoming and losing?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.