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When you discover your sexuality later in life

I'm 45 and just realizing I might be pansexual after a lifetime of thinking I was straight, but I feel too old to be having an identity crisis.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Self-discovery has no expiration date, but ageist assumptions about sexual identity can make late-life realizations feel shameful rather than liberating.

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“Where Are You with Bisexual and pansexual identity?”

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