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How twin loss disrupts fundamental identity boundaries

I'm a twin and my sister died in a car accident last year and people still see me and think of her and I don't know where she ends and I begin.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The death of a twin can shatter the most basic sense of self-boundary, leaving the survivor uncertain about which thoughts and traits were ever truly their own.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Who am I — the foundational question?”

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