I'm a veteran with PTSD and my civilian friends keep thanking me for my service but have no idea how to talk to me about what I actually experienced.
More people experience this than they realize.
Performative appreciation can substitute for authentic relationship and prevent real connection around difficult experiences.
“Where Are You with Survivor identity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.