I'm bisexual but I pass as straight in my conservative hometown, and I feel guilty for having safety my openly gay friends don't have.
More people experience this than they realize.
The ability to hide stigmatized identities provides safety at the cost of authenticity and solidarity with those who cannot or will not hide.
“Where Are You with Fairness — what every civilization concluded?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.