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Scenario

Why Straight Friends Think All Gay People Should Date Each Other

I'm gay and my straight friends keep trying to set me up with any gay person they know like we'll automatically be compatible just because we share orientation.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Well-meaning allies reduce complex human compatibility to single identity markers, revealing the limits of their understanding.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Sexual orientation as identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.