Periagoge
Scenario

How to date when people fetishize or pity your disability

I'm in a wheelchair and went on a first date where the guy seemed surprised I could drive myself there and kept asking invasive questions about my sex life.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your attempts at romantic connection are being derailed by others' inability to see you as a complete person.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Disability rights?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.