Periagoge
Scenario

When fertility struggles reveal socially unacceptable grief

I'm infertile and everyone keeps saying 'just adopt' like it's the same thing and I can't explain why it isn't without sounding selfish.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Some losses are so specific that well-meaning solutions can feel like invalidation of the particular pain you're experiencing.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Identity crisis — when self collapses?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.