I'm infertile and everyone keeps saying 'just adopt' like it's the same thing and I can't explain why it isn't without sounding selfish.
More people experience this than they realize.
Some losses are so specific that well-meaning solutions can feel like invalidation of the particular pain you're experiencing.
“Where Are You with Identity crisis — when self collapses?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.