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When others pressure you to choose a definitive sexual identity

I'm starting to question if I'm actually bisexual or just confused because I've only dated men but I'm attracted to women and everyone keeps saying I need to 'pick a side.'

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

External demands for categorical certainty clash with the fluid reality of attraction and desire.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Queer identity as political and personal?”

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