Periagoge
Scenario

When others pressure you to choose a definitive sexual identity

I'm starting to question if I'm actually bisexual or just confused because I've only dated men but I'm attracted to women and everyone keeps saying I need to 'pick a side.'

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

External demands for categorical certainty clash with the fluid reality of attraction and desire.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Queer identity as political and personal?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.