Periagoge
Scenario

Why evolving sexual identity can feel like community betrayal

I'm starting to realize I might be pansexual but I've been part of the lesbian community for so long that changing labels feels like I'm abandoning my people.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Growth in self-understanding can conflict with loyalty to communities that have provided belonging, creating a false choice between truth and tribe.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Bisexual and pansexual identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.