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How to navigate relationship uncertainty while questioning aromantic identity

I'm starting to wonder if I'm aromantic but I've been in a relationship for three years and I don't know what this means for us or if I'm just overthinking everything.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Discovering one's aromantic identity within an existing romantic relationship creates a crisis of authenticity that threatens both personal truth and relational commitment.

Ideas that help explain it
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