I'm the only person of color on my team and when my colleagues make casual racist jokes I don't know whether to speak up and be labeled difficult or stay quiet and hate myself.
More people experience this than they realize.
Self-respect and group harmony seem mutually exclusive, forcing you to choose between dignity and acceptance.
“Where Are You with Confucian benevolence and social harmony?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.