I've been attracted to women my whole life but I'm 45 and married to a man with two kids and I don't know if this realization means I have to blow up everything I've built.
More people experience this than they realize.
Discovering authentic desire later in life collides with existing commitments and the fear of destroying others' stability.
“Where Are You with Sexual orientation as identity?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.