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Scenario

When strength training challenges gender expectations

I've been bodybuilding for three years and I'm finally strong enough to deadlift my bodyweight, but my mom keeps saying I'm getting 'too muscular for a girl' and I don't know why her opinion still matters to me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

She's caught between personal empowerment and familial acceptance, questioning whether physical strength is worth the social cost of gender nonconformity.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Body as identity — physical self-concept?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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