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Scenario

When protecting someone enables ongoing harm

I've been covering for my alcoholic coworker's mistakes for months and my boss is starting to notice and I feel torn between loyalty and protecting the rest of the team.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The difference between compassion and enabling reveals how acts of loyalty can sometimes perpetuate the very problems they seek to address.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Punitive vs. restorative approaches to harm?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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