I've been dating this guy for six months and he keeps making comments about how I'm 'exotic' looking and not like other Indian girls, and I hate that part of me likes the attention.
More people experience this than they realize.
Receiving validation that positions you as exceptional within your racial group creates internal conflict about acceptance and belonging.
“Where Are You with Colorism and intraracial identity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.