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How colorist dating preferences silence romantic possibilities

I've been in love with my best friend for years but I've never told him because I heard him say he only dates light-skinned women, and I don't want to risk losing our friendship over something I can't change.

Juana
Online
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Unexpressed romantic feelings often remain hidden when individuals believe their skin tone disqualifies them from consideration by desired partners.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Colorism and intraracial identity?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.