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How to navigate aromantic realization within established marriage

I've been married for ten years and just realized I might be aromantic, which explains so much but also terrifies me about what this means for my marriage and my spouse who definitely isn't.

Juana
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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Discovering aromantic identity within a committed romantic relationship creates a profound crisis between authentic selfhood and existing relational commitments.

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