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Scenario

When siblings have different relationships with toxic family members

I've been no-contact with my abusive father for three years but my brother still talks to him and brings him up in conversation like nothing happened.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Divergent responses to family toxicity can create secondary trauma when siblings cannot align on protective strategies.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Sibling identity dynamics?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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