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How people-pleasing creates the rejection it fears

I've been saying yes to everything to be liked and now I'm burned out and resentful and snapping at people I actually care about

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The exhaustion of constant accommodation eventually produces the very dismissiveness that drives others away.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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